Policies, Codes of Conduct, & Terms of Service

Privacy Policy

Effective Date: July 18th 2025

This Privacy Policy explains how Kind Usefulness, LLC (“we,” “us,” or “our”) collects, uses, and protects the personal information of visitors to our website and clients who engage in our services, including death doula support, companion work, liberation services, personal assistant duties, and 1:1 life coaching.

We are committed to maintaining your privacy, respecting your confidentiality, and meeting applicable requirements under South Carolina law and standard U.S. privacy practices.

1. Information We Collect

We may collect the following types of personal information:

A. Information You Provide Directly

Name
Email address
Phone number
Mailing or billing address
Scheduling information
Payment details (processed through third-party payment providers)
Personal details you voluntarily share during consultations or sessions

B. Automatically Collected Information (Website)

When you visit our website, we may automatically collect:

IP address
Browser type
Device information
Pages viewed and time spent
Cookies and similar technologies (used for basic site functionality and analytics)

2. How We Use Your Information

We use your information to:

Provide and personalize our services
Communicate with you about appointments, updates, or questions
Process payments and send invoices
Improve our website and service offerings
Maintain records as required for business, ethical, or legal purposes
Protect against fraud or misuse

We do not sell or rent your personal information.

3. Confidentiality and Sensitive Information

Because our work may include personal, emotional, and end-of-life discussions, we maintain strict confidentiality.
We will not share your sensitive information without your consent except:

If required by law, court order, or legal process
If there is an immediate risk of harm to you or others
If necessary to protect our legal rights

We are not a medical provider and therefore are not bound by HIPAA, but we voluntarily handle client information with comparable care and confidentiality.

4. How We Store and Protect Your Information

We take reasonable administrative, technical, and physical steps to protect personal information, including:

Secure password-protected devices
Encrypted communication tools when possible
Secure third-party payment processors

However, no system is entirely free from risk, and we cannot guarantee absolute security of information transmitted online.

5. Sharing Your Information

We may share information only with:

Third-party service providers (such as payment processors, scheduling platforms, website hosting, or email services)
Professional collaborators only with your explicit consent
Legal authorities when required by law

These third parties are permitted to use your information only as necessary to provide services to us.

6. Cookies and Tracking Technologies

Our website may use cookies or analytics tools to:

Improve site functionality
Understand visitor interactions
Enhance user experience

You may disable cookies through your browser settings, though it may affect site performance.

7. Your Rights (South Carolina Residents)

While South Carolina does not currently have a broad consumer privacy law like some states, you still have the right to:

Request access to the personal information we hold about you
Request corrections to inaccurate information
Request deletion of your data where legally permissible
Withdraw consent for communications

To make a request, contact us at: [Your Email]

8. Data Retention

We retain your information only as long as necessary to:

Provide services
Maintain business and tax records
Meet ethical or legal obligations

Documents containing sensitive information may be securely destroyed after the retention period expires.

9. Third-Party Links

Our website may contain links to external websites.
We are not responsible for the privacy practices or content of those sites.

10. Children’s Privacy

Our website and services are not directed to individuals under age 18.
We do not knowingly collect information from children.
If we learn that information was collected from a minor, we will delete it promptly.

11. Changes to This Policy

We may update this Privacy Policy from time to time.
The “Effective Date” at the top will be updated accordingly.
Continued use of our website or services indicates acceptance of the updated policy.

12. Contact Us

If you have questions about this Privacy Policy or your information, contact:

Kind Usefulness, LLC
Email: info@kindusefulness.com
Phone: 803.919.3535
Website: KindUsefulness.com
Location: South Carolina, USA

Terms of Service

Kind Usefulness, LLC
Effective Date: July 18th 2025

Welcome to Kind Usefulness, LLC (“we,” “us,” or “our”). These Terms of Service (“Terms”) govern your use of our website and your participation in our services, including death doula work, companion services, liberation services, personal assistant support, and 1:1 life coaching (“Services”). By using our website or booking Services, you agree to these Terms.

If you do not agree with any part of these Terms, please discontinue use of our site and services.

1. Age Requirement (Strict Policy)

All clients must be 18 years of age or older.
We do not provide Services to anyone under 18 for any reason, even with parental or guardian consent.
If we discover that a client is under 18, all Services will be terminated immediately.

2. Nature and Scope of Services

Kind Usefulness, LLC provides non-medical, non-clinical, non-therapeutic services designed to offer emotional support, education, companionship, practical assistance, and personal growth guidance.

Important Clarifications:

We do not provide sexual services or sex work.
We do not engage in erotic labor, physical sexual contact, sexual touching, or any form of physical intimacy.
“Sexual liberation services” refers strictly to conversation-based, educational, coaching, or empowerment-oriented dialogue, not sexual acts or physical services of any kind.

We also do not provide:

Medical care or medical advice
Mental health diagnosis or treatment
Legal, financial, or tax advice
Counseling or psychotherapy

Our work is supportive, relational, and educational—not clinical.

3. Eligibility

To use our Services, you must:

Be at least 18 years old
Be legally able to enter a contract
Be the intended recipient of the Services (unless arranging care for an adult with legal permission)

If you are booking Services on behalf of another adult, you must have clear authorization to do so.

4. Scheduling, Cancellations & Rescheduling

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5. Payment Terms

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6. Confidentiality

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7. Client Responsibilities

You agree to:

Provide accurate and honest information
Use Services responsibly and respectfully
Refrain from requesting or suggesting any sexual service, erotic activity, or inappropriate physical contact
Understand the emotional and non-medical nature of our work
Seek emergency or medical help when appropriate

Any request for sexual services or sexually explicit conduct will result in immediate termination of the professional relationship.

8. Limitations of Services

You understand that:

We do not participate in sexual contact of any kind
We do not guarantee any specific outcome or emotional result
We do not provide medical, psychiatric, or therapeutic services

9. Boundaries & Safety

To maintain a safe, ethical, and professional environment:

We reserve the right to end Services immediately if boundaries are crossed, including inappropriate or sexualized communication
We may decline or discontinue Services if safety, comfort, or appropriateness becomes compromised

10. Website Use

You agree not to:

Use the site for unlawful purposes
Attempt to disrupt or hack systems
Harvest data from the site
Misuse contact forms or communication channels

We may modify or discontinue website features at any time.

11. Third-Party Services & Links

Our website may include links to external websites or use third-party tools.
We are not responsible for their content, policies, or practices.

12. Refunds

Unless otherwise stated:

Services already delivered are non-refundable
Prepaid sessions may be refundable at our discretion if canceled more than 24 hours in advance

If a refund is issued, payment processing fees may be deducted.

13. Disclaimers

Our Services are provided “as is” without warranties of any kind.
We do not guarantee:

Specific results or outcomes
Availability of certain appointment times
That our website will be error-free or uninterrupted

To the fullest extent allowed by law, we are not liable for:

Emotional, physical, or financial outcomes resulting from your decisions
Acts or omissions outside our control
Any indirect or consequential damages

14. Limitation of Liability

To the maximum extent permitted by South Carolina law, our total liability for any claim arising from Services or website use is limited to the total amount you paid us in the 3 months before the claim arose.

Some jurisdictions may not allow certain limitations, so parts of this section may not apply.

15. Governing Law

These Terms are governed by the laws of the State of South Carolina, without regard to conflict-of-law rules.
Any disputes will be handled in the appropriate courts of South Carolina.

16. Changes to Terms

We may update these Terms occasionally.
The “Effective Date” will reflect the newest version.
Continued use of Services or the website means you accept the revised Terms.

17. Contact Information

For questions about these Terms, contact:

Kind Usefulness, LLC
Email: info@kindusefulness.com
Phone: 803.919.3535
Location: South Carolina, USA
Website: KindUsefulness.com

Client Code of Conduct

CLIENT CODE OF CONDUCT

Kind Usefulness, LLC
Effective Date: July 18th 2025

At Kind Usefulness, LLC, we aim to create a safe, respectful, and supportive environment for all clients. By engaging in our Services, you agree to the following Client Code of Conduct.

1. Age Requirement

I confirm that I am 18 years of age or older.
I understand that no services are offered to anyone under 18.

2. Respectful Communication

I will:

Communicate respectfully and honestly
Speak to the doula/coach/staff without abusive, threatening, or harassing language
Maintain appropriate boundaries during written, verbal, and in-person interactions

3. No Requests for Sexual Services

I understand and agree that:

Kind Usefulness, LLC does NOT provide sexual services, erotic labor, or any form of sexual contact
“Sexual liberation” support refers only to conversation, education, empowerment, and coaching, never physical or erotic acts
Any requests, suggestions, or pressure for sexual contact will result in immediate termination of services without refund

4. Appropriate Physical Boundaries

I will:

Respect the doula’s personal space and comfort
Ask before initiating any physical contact (e.g., a supportive hug)
Accept that the doula may decline physical touch for any reason

5. Honesty About Needs & Limitations

I agree to:

Provide accurate information related to my needs, health conditions (if relevant), or safety concerns
Inform the doula if I experience distress, discomfort, or need to pause services

6. No Medical or Legal Substitution

I acknowledge:

The doula/coach is not a medical provider, mental health clinician, lawyer, or financial advisor
I am responsible for seeking appropriate professional help when needed
In emergencies, I will contact 911 or appropriate services

7. Safety & Environment

I agree to:

Provide a reasonably safe, clean, and respectful environment for in-person sessions
Disclose safety risks (e.g., aggressive pets, unsafe home conditions) beforehand
Not attend sessions under heavy intoxication from alcohol or drugs

8. Payment & Scheduling

I agree to:

Follow the cancellation policy
Pay for services at the agreed rate
Understand that excessive cancellations or non-compliance may result in services being discontinued

9. Termination of Services

I understand that services may be terminated immediately if:

I violate boundaries
I request or initiate sexual contact
I behave aggressively, disrespectfully, or inappropriately
I fail to follow safety expectations

If services are terminated, Kind Usefulness, LLC may offer referrals when appropriate.

I acknowledge that I have read, understood, and agree to abide by the Client Code of Conduct for Kind Usefulness, LLC.

Client Signature: _______________________ Date: __________

Doula Code of Conduct

DOULA CODE OF CONDUCT

Kind Usefulness, LLC
Effective Date: July 18th 2025

This Doula Code of Conduct outlines the ethical commitments, boundaries, and practices upheld by Kind Usefulness, LLC in all services, including death doula support, companion work, liberation services, personal assistance, and 1:1 coaching.

1. Commitment to Non-Medical, Non-Clinical Support

As a doula and support professional, I:

Provide emotional, educational, logistical, and compassionate support
Do not diagnose, treat, prescribe, or offer medical advice
Encourage clients to seek licensed medical or mental health professionals when needed

2. No Sexual Services or Erotic Contact

I uphold a clear and uncompromising boundary:

I do not provide sexual services, sex work, erotic touch, or sexualized experiences
Sexual liberation work is conversation-based only, focused on empowerment, healing, and autonomy
Any sexual request from clients will result in service termination

3. Professional Boundaries

I will:

Maintain appropriate emotional, physical, and relational boundaries
Avoid dual relationships that could impair professionalism
Decline physical touch when needed for safety or comfort
Refrain from exploitation, manipulation, or undue influence

4. Respect, Dignity & Inclusivity

I commit to:

Treating every client with respect and humanity
Upholding a non-judgmental environment
Supporting clients across identities, bodies, cultures, ability levels, sexual orientations, gender expressions, and belief systems

5. Confidentiality & Privacy

I will:

Maintain strict confidentiality
Protect client stories, information, and experiences
Disclose only when legally required (e.g., risk of harm, abuse, court orders)
Follow the Privacy Policy of Kind Usefulness, LLC

6. Trauma-Informed Practice

I commit to:

Using compassionate, consent-oriented practices
Checking in about comfort levels
Offering clients choice, autonomy, and the ability to pause or stop at any time

7. Safety Practices

I will:

Prioritize the physical and emotional safety of clients
Withdraw from unsafe or inappropriate environments
Uphold safe working conditions for both client and doula
Maintain professional boundaries regarding substances, environments, and risk

8. Transparency & Honest Communication

I will:

Clearly describe what my services do and do not include
Set expectations around scheduling, payment, boundaries, and scope
Communicate openly when something is beyond my ability or role

9. Competence & Continuing Growth

I commit to:

Working within the limits of my training and expertise
Seeking continuing education and community support
Referring out when a client’s needs exceed my scope or specialty

10. Ethical Right to Decline or Discontinue Services

I reserve the right to decline or discontinue services if:

A client violates boundaries
Safety concerns arise
The relationship becomes inappropriate or harmful
My scope of practice cannot meet the client’s needs

Whenever possible, I will offer referrals or resources.

Sexual Conduct & Touch Boundary Policy

SEXUAL CONDUCT & TOUCH BOUNDARY POLICY

Kind Usefulness, LLC
Effective Date: July 18th, 2025

This Sexual Conduct & Touch Boundary Policy outlines the ethical, professional, and safety standards for all services provided by Kind Usefulness, LLC, including death doula support, companion care, liberation work, personal assistance, and 1:1 life coaching.

1. Zero-Tolerance for Sexual Services

Kind Usefulness, LLC maintains a strict and non-negotiable policy:

We do not offer or engage in:

Sexual services
Erotic labor
Sexualized acts or experiences
Genital, erotic, or intimate massage
Sexual touching or physical intimacy
Role-play or fantasy-based sexual scenarios
Sexting or the exchange of sexual images
Suggestive, explicit, or erotic conversation initiated for arousal

Any request for sexual services will result in:

Immediate termination of the session
Cancellation of all future services
No refund of fees already paid

2. Clarification of “Sexual Liberation Services”

We offer conversation-based sexual liberation support that may include:

Education
Empowerment work
Shame reduction
Advocacy
Self-understanding and embodiment
Consent and communication coaching

It does not include physical touch, nudity, demonstrations, or sexual activity.

This work is verbal, reflective, and supportive only.

3. Physical Touch Policy

Because doula and supportive work can sometimes involve grounding or comforting presence, the following touch guidelines apply:

Touch May Include (If Consent Is Given):

Hand-holding
A one-arm or two-arm supportive hug
Light shoulder touch
Non-intimate physical assistance (e.g., helping a client to stand)
Comfort-based presence during end-of-life care

All touch must be:

Explicitly consented to beforehand
Client-led or doula-offered, not assumed
Reversible at any time (“no” or “stop” means stop immediately)
Non-invasive and non-intimate

Touch Never Includes:

Any touch near or on the breasts, buttocks, genitals, groin, or inner thighs
Touch with erotic or intimate intention
Full-body contact
Massage that could be interpreted as sensual
Holding or touching a client in private spaces without a clear, non-intimate purpose
Touch while a client is nude or semi-nude
Touch intended for arousal or physical stimulation

4. Conversation Boundaries

The following are always prohibited:

Requests for sexual details for voyeuristic, erotic, or inappropriate curiosity
Sexualized comments about the doula
Flirtation, propositioning, or sexual advances toward the doula
Sexual jokes that create discomfort or violate professional boundaries

5. Session Environment Boundaries

Clients must agree to:

Wear appropriate clothing during sessions (no nudity)
Avoid using the space for sexualized expression
Ensure other individuals in the environment follow the same standards

6. Safety & Reporting

If sexual misconduct occurs:

Services end immediately
Documentation may be created for safety/legal purposes
Referrals may not be provided
Police or safety agencies may be contacted if the situation warrants

7. Doula Responsibilities

Kind Usefulness, LLC pledges to:

Never initiate sexual contact
Never accept sexualized invitations or requests
Maintain professional boundaries at all times
Protect client dignity and bodily autonomy
Model consent, clarity, and non-judgmental presence

Client Safety Plan & Crisis Protocol

CLIENT SAFETY PLAN & CRISIS PROTOCOL

Kind Usefulness, LLC
Effective Date: July 18th, 2025

This Safety Plan outlines how Kind Usefulness, LLC ensures a physically, emotionally, and ethically safe environment during all services.

It also clarifies the steps we take when clients disclose distress, crisis, or unsafe circumstances.

1. Purpose of the Safety Plan

This Safety Plan ensures:

Physical safety
Emotional and psychological safety
Clear expectations around crisis situations
Supportive but non-clinical response boundaries
Transparency in what the doula can and cannot provide

2. Non-Clinical Role

Kind Usefulness, LLC is not a medical care provider, therapist, or crisis-response agency.
We offer:

Companionship
Advocacy
Emotional support
End-of-life presence
Coaching
Grounding techniques

We do not:

Conduct mental health assessments
Provide psychiatric care
Intervene in emergencies
Make medical decisions
Provide crisis stabilization

3. Client Safety Responsibilities

Clients agree to:

Be honest about physical and emotional needs
Disclose safety risks (e.g., domestic violence concerns, self-harm feelings) when comfortable
Maintain a safe environment for sessions
Identify support people who can be contacted in emergencies
Seek emergency help when needed

4. Doula Safety Responsibilities

Kind Usefulness, LLC will:

Maintain situational awareness
Refuse unsafe working conditions
Leave a session if safety becomes compromised
Document safety risks appropriately
Offer referrals as needed
Follow mandatory reporting laws (when applicable)

5. Crisis & Emergency Protocol

If a client expresses immediate danger:

Examples:

Medical emergency
Suicidal intent with a plan
Threat of harm to others
Severe physical injury

The doula will:

Stay calm and grounded
Encourage the client to contact emergency services (911)
If the client cannot/will not call, the doula may call 911 if safety demands intervention
Provide presence until emergency professionals arrive (if in person and safe to do so)

The doula will NOT:

Provide clinical crisis intervention
Physically restrain a client
Replace emergency services
Transport a client in personal vehicles

If a client is in emotional crisis but not in immediate danger:

Examples:

Dissociation
Overwhelm
Intense grief
Panic
Fear or confusion
Emotional flashbacks

The doula may:

Offer grounding exercises (breathing, sensory orientation, pause breaks)
Provide supportive conversation
Encourage coping strategies
Help identify support networks
Suggest follow-up with a therapist or clinician

The doula will NOT:

Conduct therapy
Diagnose or treat mental health conditions

6. In-Person Session Safety

Clients agree to:

Provide a safe and respectful environment
Disclose hazards (e.g., dangerous pets, unsafe buildings)
Keep substances and weapons safely stored
Maintain appropriate clothing and behavior

The doula may:

End a session early if the environment is unsafe
Request sessions occur in neutral or public spaces when needed

7. Substance Use

Clients must not:

Attend sessions under heavy intoxication
Request support for illegal substance use
Engage in unsafe behavior during sessions

If intoxication creates risk, the session will end.

8. End-of-Life and Vulnerable Situations

For clients receiving death doula support:

The doula will be present within agreed-upon limits
The doula will support caregivers and family as appropriate
The doula will maintain calm, respectful, grounded presence
The doula will call for additional help (not medical diagnosis) when needed

9. Documentation

If a safety risk occurs, the doula may:

Take brief, confidential notes
Document only essential safety-related facts
Store notes securely

10. Termination of Services for Safety Reasons

Kind Usefulness, LLC may discontinue services if:

Safety is compromised
Boundaries are violated
A client repeatedly engages in harmful behaviors
The workload becomes unethical or beyond scope

Referrals may be offered when appropriate.

11. Acknowledgement

By engaging in any Service with Kind Usefulness, LLC, the client acknowledges and accepts this Safety Plan and understands its intent and limitations.